St Rita, my partner is angry and aggressive. I have two sons with him. He is becoming particularly cruel to my eldest son and is being violent to him. We already separated before my second son was born and he seemed to have changed but the reality is he has an anger problem. I am torn because if we separate again I will feel guilty and as if I have failed and I wonder of the effect on my sons. On the other hand I can't watch my son go through such misery. I have covered up this problem and pretended all is fine but no longer feel I can do this. Admitting the problem is the hardest step, so many times I have wanted to tell my parents but I keep up the facade. Please help St Rita give me the strength to know what to do. I hate to condemn my partner so openly and I'm not sure what I am scared of. Thank you for your help.